| First of all Kris wants you to know
how much she loves you and how much joy and love you brought into her life.
She learned so much from those who surrounded her. You know Kris, and how
spiritual she is.....and please note how I say ..."she is"....Kris doesn't
believe in death...only life.....and right now she is ALIVE and doing well
only in another dimension.
Please don't talk about her in the "past tense".....she
still "is", so please talk about her in the NOW. This is something that
bothers her more than you'll ever know.....She once said..."if anyone speaks
of me in the past tense I'll come back and haunt them! "
Kris has asked me to pass this along to you.....in
lue of donations to the Cancer Society (which she didn't really believe
in totally)....she believes that donations to Camp Trillium ( this is a
camp for kids with cancer)....or to the local humane society would be appropriate...
especially the animals, they are such loves of hers.
There will be information there at the funeral
home for those that want to do something like this. Now flowers.....You're
not supposed to do this, like favour a particular shop…but she does!..Her
girlfriend...Ann Musselman from Flowers by Ann in Port Dover...she'd like
her to get the business..You can reach Ann at 1-800-701-2811...or 583-0973
Kris also hates the word wake....so we'll be
using the word PARTY....Kris is just smiling as I say this to you. Musicians
that come to the party...please bring your instrument and there is gonna
be a jam session at the funeral home. She would love to have the walls
come tumblin down...hahah
If anyone wants to speak at all during the
party for Kris....whether at the funeral home or the church with stories
please do so....don't be shy. Talk to either James Anthony/her brother
Warren/her sister Lynne or the Rev. Terry Dance.
Make Kris look good....and make her folks blush!!...(in
her own words) Her brother Warren and Sister Lynne won't blush -
they're musicians! After the church service is over….go to church hall
(same building) for luncheon…please jam again if you'd like.
There will be no going to cemetery as Kris
isn't going to be buried. She is going to be cremated and Terry is taking
her home with him.
Kris thanks you from the bottom of her heart…for
what you've done to enrich her life just knowing you, laughing with you,
with some crying with you. We've shared a lot of beliefs and disbelieves
and we've all grown together. Some of us have even "Remembered what we've
forgotten". (Kris giggled here) Kris thanks you for your support in her…in
her music…in what she believed in.
Kris has learned to love all on God's planet
earth…has learned to love God's creatures as much and the same as she learned
to love all of you. In other words, she loved her kitty Cleo with the same
love as she loves you all!
There are no good-byes…..just toodles. And
in closing……..I love you very very much and will see you on the other side
very soon. |
